Appreciation of The Game of Golf and it’s Fans!

I so, so, respect the game of golf and the fans of the game of golf!

 

What is required to stage any golf tournament- let alone major national championships- is much work!  I’m here at the USGA Women’s Open at Lancaster Country Club as a non-playing LPGA professional golfer this time around. My perspective is much different, more broad now.  When I played, I was single-minded and focused and didn’t care much to look around to see what was provided for us. Now, as an older, like I mentioned, a non-playing spectator, the bigger picture of what it takes to stage these premier golf events has me feeling so appreciative and grateful to the many, many unselfish volunteers and fans of this wonderful game.

 

The volunteers are regular people who leave their homes and their weekly lives, travel, incur all the costs, physically work hard in the hot sun, and then sometimes have to put up with some baloney from some rude spectators to help “stage” a golf championship. There is so much to cover at an event!   Committees of volunteers form teams for the many different areas that require attention.

 

Transportation Committees: Getting players and committee heads to and from the airport and to and from hotels during the week is a full time job. Coordinating areas around the course where they can place cars and vans in the event of bad weather and evacuation is needed is another role of these committee persons.

 

There are Rules Officials- lots of them!  It is not like Wimbledon, (which is being held right now) when there is only a chair referee and a few line judges. Golf events have ACRES of land that have to be “scoured” to see how the rules of golf would be interpreted to this unique scenario.  Also, rules officials have to factor in the “outside agencies” that were not supposed to be on the course in normal circumstances. For example; Large areas where “porto pottees” are placed, Huge corporate tents for hospitality out on the fairway, camera towers that are in bounds but prevent players from playing certain shots, large crowds in the way between a player and a green…. …………all these factors have to be thought out before hand and managed and it is not easy.

 

Food: These golf events have to feed a lot of bellys!   There is food that has to be cooked on site for all the fans.  Where do the players eat?  A large hospitality tent for the players and their families needs to be provided. Huge make shift kitchens are assembled and a staff of employees are supplied and they produce all this on site!

 

Media: These days, it is a worldwide media frenzy to get the action out and broadcasted to every nook and crany in the world.  There is a huge area comprised of portable tents where these journalists have access to power, computers, and wi fi.  There they sit and watch TV monitors of the action and write their stories.

 

Television: The TV Networks have to send in all their camera men- with their expensive cameras and erect towers all over the course to place the cameras at vantage points from where they can best film the action. They used to have to lug miles of cable in the old days.

 

Parking:   Hundreds of surrounding neighbors open their front yards up to park cars for the patrons who want to park close.  Committees find local large shopping malls of facilities where they can easily shuttle the hundreds /thousands of fans into and out of the property to observe the action.

 

Security:  Many, Many “fans” that come in to volunteer their time, receive the assignment of handling “security.”  That means, standing in the entrance gate to check to see if the incoming spectators have the correct tickets to enter.  Believe me, standing at an entrance gate out in the middle of a dusty, hot, parking lot – where they can see no golf action from the players is a great service to this game!   And…….there are hundreds of people who do this each week in different cities, just to help out, just to do it for golf!!

 

It is amazing what all has to happen to have these Cities/ Courses/Clubhouses’ ready to experience the onslaught of people that particular week.  Then, in a quick 7 days, it is over and you are left to pick up the pieces to a HUGE MESS- they have parked cars on your course and torn up the turf, thousands of people have stomped down the fairways and damaged your grass that will take weeks to grow back, huge holes in the ground where they dug holes to safely erect signs, or temporary tents, or camera towers……..You are just left with a mess when the last put on the 18th green is holed.

 

Behind, every great champion of the golf event is a GREAT COMMITTEE OF VOLUNTEERS AND FANS THAT MAKE THE EVENT EVEN POSSIBLE!

 

p.s.   Photos below of rules officials being briefed VERY early in the morning before the day begins, a lone camera woman doing her daily thing of covering a player (golfers walk fast- cameramen can’t stay in the arena and just sit and shoot all day. You have to strap it on you and carry it with you!  A rules official showing other officials what the official ruling would be in that area of the course. Graciously, a golfer signing autographs during the practice round to all the local young fans. (Alright ladies!!  The LPGA tour is fantastic at doing this for the fans!  Makes me proud!)  Lastly, a whole area of your property has to be supplied to create a great practice facility for the players. Nothing to it!

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Golf Builds Bridges

Building BridgesGolf builds bridges!  I’ve been talking about it, and observing and experiencing it personally for years.

Recently, my son started playing golf for his high school team and he started asking me to play with him!  I have met most of his friends and to have time with your 15- year old son’s buddies – undisturbed time with no phones, no distractions, is very unusual and has been very welcomed and really enjoyable!  I have really valued these experiences and it has allowed me to hear about my son from his teammates point of views. It gives me more information on how my son is creating himself in the world.  I don’t know about you, but as a parent, any information I can get on what my son is doing, thinking, exploring… I am interested in hearing about.

As far as my mother, the bridge I have into her world is also so appreciated and thoroughly enjoyed!  I have my common way of relating to my mom and when I get to see how others relate to my mom and how they see her strengths- again, it gives me a way broader vision of my mom and I so appreciate that injection of their point of view and my own potential attitude adjustment that I could take toward my mom to make our relationship continue to stay great. People we love often get pigeon holed into what we say is true about them and it does take that outside help at times to allow us to see their much broader roles and talents in life.

Of course I speak about “business golf” and how to use golf as a tool for creating specific business relationships.  I can go on at length how this is beneficial to creating success in your business.  But, what I haven’t talked about as much is how golf has also built a bridge for me to be able to experience relaxing, amusing, relationships with people I have never met and would have never met if it wasn’t for golf; people from completely different circles in life.  My world gets enhanced.  I get birds eye views into different existences- and I really value that!   Where we choose to take those relationships varies from person to person but the initial glimpse is something I really like.

Of course the people with whom I’m already a friend, when we golf, we can really banter and have some fun!  Golf is a great social game!  This past weekend when four of us ladies met for a round after work at 3pm, (we cut out early!) I was again reminded of what golf brings to my life when we were on the porch eating dinner together until almost 10pm.  As the round progressed, we were all having so much fun, we all decided to make the necessary phone calls to organize our lives so we could have post round discussions and dinner and we all left feeling happy and all was well in the world for another day!

Learning to Appreciate My City and Myself!

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IMG_1577Appreciating My City and Myself!

Last month, I returned home to Pittsburgh from Phoenix, where I had spent a week at my year- end golf conferences.  Some of the brightest coaches, swing doctors, club manufacturers and tech support people in our industry, were all there to educate us golf coaches and bring us up to speed on best practices of our industry.  It was exciting and stimulating to rub shoulders with golf coaches from all over the world who are willing to share how they had had success working with their players.  From the likes of Jordan Spieth’s Coach, LPGA rookie Guila Molinaro’s coaches, Sean O’Hair’s coach, to the coaches of Mrs. Smith at the club or little junior member Johnny who is 7 years old!  I am busting at the seems on how I want to add or take away some of my practices that may make my coaching more effective for my students!

What I want to say is that over the years, I have had some sadness or loss of energy upon returning home to Pittsburgh from some of these trips.  These trips always seem to be in the winter! It seems to me that those areas have better practice facilities, better weather, and more buzz in the air with all the swing gurus congregated in the same area! It was kind of a let down and I wished I would have lived in Phoenix or Florida so I could practice more, get more instruction from the #1 coaches in the country (the ones in the magazines), hit more balls on the best facilities in the world, use the bells and whistles of the industry like trackman and 3 – D technology that every range out there seems to have.

Then, I learned something at the conference that really helped me!   I kind of already knew it but it was good to hear it articulated.  What I learned helps me to realize what really matters and helps me to realize why I was able to play well on tour and why I love living where I live.

What I remembered again out in phoenix is that Golf is a great game and requires a wide set of skills– not just having a great swing and hitting a lot of balls in good weather!!!

Concentration, letting go of disappointments, awareness of ourselves, our physical condition, ability to define what we’re going to do and then doing that, having motivation about our games and  knowing why we play, being able to trust ourselves on the course, and learning how to practice trusting in our practice sessions, ……………All of these skills are as important as how well you hit the ball!   A lot of these skills can be learned on the golf course in great weather or indoors in a golf academy or even just in regular life!  (For example-  patience ??)  You don’t need to play 36 holes a day in the perfect sunshine getting lessons from the supposed best golf teacher who uses all the latest scientific gadgets to get you good at playing golf!  Did you hear that?

I know there is a temptation out there, and sure it is nice to hang out with all the pretty people in the pretty weather, but the bottom line is- there are other factors that are in play here and those can be learned and mastered anywhere.

I played 14 years on tour without any Trackman, or Flightscope, or K- Vests, High Speed Video, Sam Put Labs…………and I love Florida, but I also love Pittsburgh!  I didn’t think I was that great at concentration or disappointments or energy management- I didn’t even think about it before when I was on tour! How nice it is that I can now appreciate that I was good at those skills and that is why I did continue improving up and onto the tour.  And, isn’t it great that I can now bring more of that education and awareness to my student’s games and help them develop all these areas?

What I’m excited about is that you can bet that you’ll be able to count on me to absolutely have you understand what you need in your game to score better and to enjoy it more and how to get it done effectively and efficiently- regardless if we’re in cloudy Pittsburgh in November or sunny Phoenix in November.  The interesting part is that there are even some advantages to being in Pittsburgh!  I’ll tell you more of those next time!

 

Paying Attention

As I was at my last collegiate golf tournament,  in the role of a coach, it occurred to me, a mature woman of 49 years of age, a14 year veteran of the LPGA Tour, a winner on the LPGA tour, a mother of a teenage son, a business owner, a homeowner… That these young ladies I was watching are young and a bit inexperienced !   In their youth, a lot of them don’t see the whole picture of where they are in the development of their games and what needs to be addressed next!  I see them spending their time and attention doing things that will not have much return for them. 
 
If they had my point of view, watching from the gallery, they could see what they look like on the golf course.  They could see why they are not as successful as they would like to be. 
 
I am not criticizing their work ethic.  I’m not criticizing who they are as people- they are great people! What I am saying is that when you have had the perspective I’ve had, you can easily see that the reason these young ladies are not quite where they want to be.  The game is more clear to us more experienced players who have seen the same patterns over and over and over.
 
It took me a while to learn all of this too.   I would say that the things off the golf course are as important- IF NOT MORE- than practicing hitting balls or practicing your putting.  These principles are what I teach in my Mental Mastery Program.  Principles such as:
 
1.      Awareness of yourself
 
2.      Patience
 
3.      Attitude
 
4.      Perspective
 
5.      Bouncing back from disappointment
 
6.      And treating yourself nicely!!  
 
 
These are commonly mentioned themes but it will be these good old fashioned lessons that will have some of these girls continue to develop their games and then start to kick it into 2nd gear.   The ones that don’t learn these lessons… will slowly start moving in other directions.  That is just the truth. 
 
My advice:  Take a Break- Stop the Action for Awhile.   Then, get some feedback from others you trust;  your coaches, your parents, your teammates.  Ask them what they see about you.  Compile your stats on yourself.  What are your weaknesses? What is your upward potential?  What is it that you need?
 
Then go about devising your practice days with that in the forefront and don’t get distracted!  It takes a lot to get to the LPGA Tour and then some more to stay there.  Pay attention and use your time and energy working on the important things. 

Golf and Fishing?

OK, I loved this golf story!  I have played in a lot of pro ams and I've heard a lot of funny jokes and one liners but this one was original and really good.  I like playing with people who can have fun and enjoy the day.  That means people who want to focus on their shots,  but in between shots, actually want to visit and get  to know you!  I believe that is the whole point of pro ams!  Well, I played with a guy just like this last month in Memphis in the PInk Ribbon Open. We had a really nice day and I could tell it was going to be nice the night before at the Pro Am Party when we sat together and visited.  He told me he was "terrible" at golf but it didn't bother him and he had fun when he got out there on the course.

HIs disposition was calm and easy going at the dinner.  I met him and the rest of our great team on the course the following morning and we did have a great day.  To his word, my new friend was not so good on the course.  But also true to his word, he never really got upset and let it ruin his day.  I gave him many ideas and swing drills that he gladly listened to and tried out on the course.   He was so happy for the opportunity to now practice armed with this new information; which he had never heard of before.  He only plays golf 4 times a year or so  and he told me it is just a great chance to be outside and be with nature and enjoy the beauty.

Here is what he told me that really had me laugh on about the 12th hole. He said,

Golf is kind of like going out on a boat. I want to but I know I’m going to get seasick.

I thought that was hilarious. He knows he is going to play badly but he still likes going out on the boat!  I hope with some of my lessons, he won't get so seasick!  

What I Now Know For Sure!

We learn some things in life by hearing about it or reading about it. Then we learn some things in life by living it!

Here is what I always heard in life and here is what I NOW know to be factual in life; You must be an athlete to be a good golfer- to hit the ball well.

I say this because I am in San Diego for spring break and I just finished playing Torrey Pines Golf Course. The day before, I played beautiful LA North Country Club. That is 2 rounds of golf in 3 days and travel time in the car. Remember, it is March and I live in PIttsburgh so I last played a round of golf in September. My swing feels good technically, but as I get older, I notice certain things don't seem as easy to do in my swing. I notice the flexibility that is needed to have the fluidity and timing in my swing- is just not as great as it once was for me. I also notice the muscular strength needed to "go after it" is there……. but produces a slower swing speed for me now. And, lastly the endurance in my muscles, especially the ones that have had some damage or limitations in them as I've aged, is not like the energizer bunny any more. After I finished playing my round and had lunch, my mind wanted to go hit some balls but my body said,  "You need to ice your shoulder and rest!"   Although I played well and my playing companions applauded my many good shots and how "good" I looked, I am telling you I Now know I am not the athlete I once was and my game is not quite as powerful and dynamic as it once was.

It is sad to me and yet I am realistic about it. I've been in good shape most of my entire life, I've exercised and stretched and ate well and felt healthy!  I've had the opportunity to play a lot of golf around the world on absolutely fabulous courses.  I've been able to compete with some of the best players and was able to watch their talented, coordinated, athletic bodies move through a golf shot! That all has been a privilege and a great learning experience. I will continue to eat well, exercise, get physical therapy on my body parts that are a bit sore right now, do more yoga, and breathe and laugh while on the course.  It seems like work to be able to play well; it is.  It is also work that allows me to feel great in life and give more of my energy and lessons learned and love to my friends and family and students. I'll keep doing it. I think that is the good fight! To all of you, I give you the nod to keep at it and even step it up if you're so inclined! Be a great Athlete.

PGA SHOW 2013

What a great 4 days in Golf.  I met with so many old friends and enjoyed watching Mike Shultz win his award for 2012 Golf Professional of the Year!   I attended the PGA Show with my childhood friend Andrea Dornin- Kellar. Andrea  is a golf instructor in Minnesota and is good friends with Mike and Diane Shultz.  It is great to see good people get recognized.  Along with catching up with many friends, I attended some of golf’s best educational seminars and have more ideas for my students for the upcoming season!  I enjoyed hearing the LPGA will now play in an event similar to the President’s Cup.  The event starts in 2014 at the beautiful Tom Fazio designed Caves Valley Golf Course near Baltimore. Tom and I are shown here in the photo.  In 2016, the event will be held in Chicago at  Rich Harvest Farms, host of the 2009 Solheim Cup!   That is exciting news for the LPGA Tour.  I also visited Mike Bender’s Golf Academy.  It is one of the best designed golf academies and shows us how the best are training the next generation of golf superstars!  I practiced a bit along side the “kids” and am so excited to bring those concepts to my teaching in Pittsburgh. I’m hoping we get rid of this white stuff and I’ll keep looking for that Green Grass up here in the North so we can get started!

A New Batch of Mental Mastery Graduates!

December 19, 2012

Well, we have finished another Mental Mastery Program just before Christmas. I'm so glad we got it in before the holidays and now the players have this type of coaching under their belt before entering into their spring sport season.  I see the athletes mature and figure out better ways to practice in class and I get so fired up about that!  I don't think you athletes appreciate how much you plow through all of  that mental debris that gets piled up.  When this has happened, you go back to your sport and the practice sessions are way more effective and now the development really starts to show!  I've seen it many times.

I've heard these questions from parents,"Why would I put my younger athlete in a Mental Mastery Program?  Shouldn't we wait until they are more  advanced?  Isn't that when the mental game is maybe more needed?" 

My response is:  When I am with a player for a Mental Mastery Program and we spend 12 hours going through simulated practice sessions and  explain and demonstrate how to start a practice session, beginner golfers can really absorb so much more than they would have if they were not aware of some of the converstions we had in our program.  They are coachable, and they actually are aware of when they stop being coachable.  When they have that skill alone, it doesn't take the beginner student as long to learn certain physical skills in lessons.   They progress faster becasue they are aware of the steps involved in the learning process.  They know themselves better and they are aware of what they are learning during the initial first attempts. That makes the job of the coach so much easier when the athlete is a good student!